Philosophies Guiding This Work


Our program is guided by several of our shared truths about relationships. We want you to know about them as we enter our work together.

  • You need to put effort and energy into building and maintaining your relationship
  • You need to invest in your aliveness and growth- and support that of your partner
  • We all want to know we matter, we belong, and we're special
  • We all have default settings, know yours and how to work with them to foster intimacy
  • You are not broken, systems around you often are
  • You deserve pleasure 
  • Your feelings are valid
  • You are responsible for your impact on and perspective of the world around you as well as your learning and growth

Use the questions below to reflect on your own guiding philosophies:

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